Rhonda SG The 'naughtiest' thing I ever did in Lower Sec, was to tell my mom I had ECA, but I went to a Christian bookshop instead. BTW, I was a latch-key kid and although mom gave me a lot of freedom, I was ultra-responsible.
Rhonda SG The ACS boys I knew then were all very gentlemanly. I had a huge huge thang for ACS boys, one of the reasons why I chose ACJC and why I recommended my brother to attend ACS and then ACJC.
Rhonda SG OK, just so we're on the right track... you're not like Clinton, redefining the meaning of 'sex', are you?
fudgester SG I'm a 24-year old virgin. And the only woman who'll ever get it would be the future Mrs Coyote. And even then, only on my wedding night.
Wanda SG One thing I remember during my sec school days was that we had house parties at friends' house, and the boys will actually ask the gals for a dance....how sweet! Then in early twenties, somehow, it became gals would dance with gals and guys would dance with guys liao. Dunno what went wrong.
tare SG fudgy tat we understand of u lah... we call it morally uptight.. i mean upright... but we are talking abt sitella here leh
Rhonda SG Good! Good!! I think if one trivialises sex, one not only compromises one's own sense of self-respect, but something that's meant to be beautiful and important when shared between a loving couple becomes just a 'human need and desire to be fulfilled'. That's why I was telling honeymouse that I don't think I'll choose a Caucasian man to marry because their culture tends to be way too open! I asked my Aussie colleagues before, "HOw long does it take you before you'd kiss your date?" "Erm... a day? If I'm drunk, within the hour?!" And she was serious! She went on to tell us about her pash-fest with 'some man' in 'some bar' when she got drunk 'one night'. Basically, if you hop in and out of several beds, then the marital bed means nothing to you because it's 'just another sexual relationship'. It's akin to, if you can only have Ben & Jerry's Ice Cream once a year (like poor ol' me!!), you'll savour every lick! But if ten pints are sitting in your freezer waiting to be consumed, the relative value of the B&J's plunges steeply. I believe it's called 'Economic Cost'. You get my drift.
choco B SG You know how they develop a faster processor chip in shorter and shorter amounts of time? Same theory. We live in times of the Geometric Progression. Just have to adapt to it.